Senin, 23 Mei 2011

Good Friend


Being a good friend is not just about having a good time with others, it's also about how willing you are to put your friends first or point out when they're doing something you don't agree with. Have a read through the following checklist and see how good a friend you really are.


Part of being a good friend is about being willing to listen rather than just talk. This takes time and effort but if you can make time just to listen to others and respect what they have to say, then it's a sign of a good friend.


If a friend tells you something personal are you good at keeping it in confidence, or do you go and tell everyone at the first opportunity? People need to know that they can trust a friends with important information and you will only store up trouble for yourself if you are seen as unreliable. A good friend is both trustworthy and reliable.


This is one of the biggest signs of a good friend and really does stand out. Do you avoid speaking badly about others or spreading rumors in order to hurt them? Do you defend friends when you hear others gossiping about them? If you avoid gossiping others will notice how different you are and soon realize what a truly good friend you are.

Do you put your friends needs above your own? Do you try to find a compromise if you can't agree with a friend? Are you willing to do something your friend wants to do for a change rather than forcing them to do what you want? If you are willing to put your friends first in most things then this is a sign of a good friend.

Rabu, 18 Mei 2011

Find a Friend

sometimes even the best of friends lose touch. There may be an old friend or even a romantic partner who you've lost touch with but desperately want to contact. If so, there are a variety of ways to find them. If you've got a computer with Internet access, then you have a variety of tools at your disposal that can help you locate most anyone. And the best part is, many of them are absolutely free!


The first thing you should do before beginning your search is write down everything you know about the person they're looking for. This may include their name, the school and/or college they attended, jobs they've held, whether or not they are married, if they are in the military. If you have mutual acquaintances it certainly wouldn't hurt to contact them. If they can't refer you directly to the person you're looking for, they may be able to provide you with information that can help you in your search.



Now it's time to evaluate your information and begin your online search. you can perform a variety of different types of searches. There are reverse phone number searches, reverse street address searches and reverse email address searches.


With all the free tools on the Internet, it's easier and faster than ever to track down old friends. So what are you waiting for? You could be corresponding with your friend in mere moments thanks to the lightning fast search options and amazing free resources on the Web today!

Senin, 09 Mei 2011

Buhari Friends



Dating and establishing love relationships can be compared to choosing a vehicle. You pick out the make, model, year, color and features that you believe are best for you. After driving your vehicle for a couple of months, you realize that perhaps you should have purchased a larger car, or that maybe the leather seats would have been better, or on hot sunny days, the sunroof would have been nice. However, it is now too late so you choose to keep your car and accept the decision you made. It is the same for a marriage or couple relationship. Not everything will be perfect and there will be major obstacles to overcome but you have made your decision and now you choose to make it work no matter which marriage troubles you are experiencing.


Dating and marriage is different than it was thirty years ago. Today, more than 50% of all marriages fail for one reason or another. Just thinking about that makes "commitments" and marriage vows seem scary. It seems that when relationships are faced with challenges, people quit trying. Dating is more like a marathon, trying to date as many people as possible, instead of taking time to get to know someone on a deeper level. For married couples, divorce is not biased. Whether married for thirty years or eight months, the outcome can be the same.

The fact is that relationships, whether dating or married, are hard. Things do not always go perfectly, fighting does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both parties to make it a success. Often when people break off a relationship, they feel as though something is missing. The "spark" has gone, leaving one or both people feeling inadequate and unfulfilled.
However, even though the odds are not very good, it has been proven by many people that healthy and long-lasting relationships are definitely possible.

Selasa, 26 April 2011

Defining Love



Love is something that is abstract but heartfelt as an emotion. It is expressed according to how we view the idea of it. Regardless of whom we are and where we are in the universe it comes down to a deep feeling of affection that one person has for another. There are different types of expressing that affection. People express it by giving and receiving it in different ways. Love can be between friends, platonic, romantic, sexual, humanitarian, and religious to name a few types of this emotion as it is manifested.


One thing that is interesting is that love also can create attachments between people. Just like there are different types, there can be different types of attachments. You can have a mother and child attachment or a romantic attachment for starters. We can also love things. For instance a person can love eating chocolate. However one's love for a thing and attachment to it is different than the love one feels for a human being or even a pet.
Interpersonal love is the type that occurs between human beings. It is a more intense feeling than just two people "liking" each other. It implies a relationship between two people as well. Most of the time when we speak of it it's usually on a romantic level between a man and a woman it means different things to different people.
 
When you have love for someone you want the best for them. Two people who have it for one another want to naturally be there for each other. They help each other unconditionally when there is a problem.

Jumat, 22 April 2011

Friendship is About Bonding


Friendship is about bonding. It is about reciprocating the care you receive from a person and at the same time respecting the other person's view. A friend does not judge you by wealth or position, he or she is there with you during your bad times. He is like the pillar of strength you can rely on and also share your apprehensions about the various aspects in life. Friendship blossoms each day and one must make time to strengthen the bond.


Days and events are important during friendship. It is vital for us to remember the important days in our friend's life. Friendship is also about trust. One is able to open up freely to the person who is your friend because you know you will not be judged. It is fine to express your inhibitions and also seek the advice of your friend but at the same time friendship is also respecting the other person's predicament.


Friendships tend to sometimes even be more deep than family. The saying we can choose our friends but we can't choose our family comes to mind quite often. When you make a connection with a person whom we enjoy talking to, confiding in and sharing our most inner thoughts we are deeply united in a way that we may never be with our family. To have a friend we must truly be a friend, what does this mean? Friendships that are selfish are not going to last, no selfish relationships do. In order to be a true friend you must be able to think about someone other than yourself.

Have Friends


We all have friends. A lot gets talked about friendships. Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true friend. After a romantic relationship, friendships are the most important relationships we can have. Though all of us have family and distant family, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration.


A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children.


It should be understood that not all friends are best friends. One might come across numerous number of friends in his life but there are very few who will be their during your ups and down. How one should recognize your best friend the one who will understand your strengths and shortcomings and would be with you in all your good and bad phases of life.

Rabu, 20 April 2011

Men Friendships


Friendship is a personal relationship shared between each friend for the welfare of other, in other words, it is the relationship of trust, faith and concern for each other feelings. It is a relationship of mutual caring and intimacy among one another. A friend is one who knows you as a person and regards you for what you are and not what he or she is looking in a good friend. Best friend is one who accepts the good as well bad qualities of his friend and also takes an initiative in correcting and mending them. Friendship is a distinctive kind of concern for your friend, it is a relationship of immense faith and love for each other.
Friendship is all about how much you care and understand each other. It is a pure relationship, which would make your friend smile, feel good as to how much you love him and care for him. It is all about talking, listening and building up a strong relationship loyalty among each other. It is string of love which develops gradually with each others involvement. In certain cases friendship may not last for a longer period and might end up or lose its prime importance of love and regard for each other. There are some friendships which might end with unresolved conflicts and tiffs which means that these type of relationship were not so strong that could hold on their own in adversity and bad times.
The very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think.

Silent Friendship


A pedestrian bridge roofless, challenged the fierce sun in the sky Jakarta-covered carbon dioxide. The people crossed the ocean covered with sweat drenched tracks air laden exhaust fumes. Middle-aged man was still sat there, rests pipes iron fence, right in the middle of the bridge. Bow his head wrapped in pandanus hats and body clad in ragged clothes all dirty, throat on the sheet of cardboard used bottled water.


In front of a dented cans, nearly empty from the smallest pieces of metal coins which are still valid. And, under the bridge, with the swift flow of motor vehicles if the intersection not far from the bridge was lighted green. In contrast, traffic flow was abruptly torn crammed like a bunch of sheep who were surprised by the roar of a tiger, when the lights suddenly red

Men's half the age it appears healthy enough to be "closed practice" when the sun began to slip into the West. Would step down by the river to the black notch on the side of the road, get a steel-wheeled carts small size of an ashtray. From the wagon loaded with bundles and bags with a dirty body-colored uniforms, they look for a plastic bottle filled with water either taken from, and then drink it (CONTINUE).

Rabu, 13 April 2011

Friendship Is Rels


Beautiful smile of a girl


Friendship is a beautiful thing


Waiting is a boring thing


Selasa, 12 April 2011

Dekave Smart and Rels


Smile is a beautiful attitude


Don't never be sad when we are in the live of a loved one


Spirit is one key to our lives

Natural Beauty


Natural beauty that we can enjoy in rural areas


Natural beauty is an earthly paradise

Reflect on our natural

Rabu, 30 Maret 2011

Jumat, 18 Maret 2011

Kamis, 17 Maret 2011

Birth Day Dekave Smakta

Hari ini DeKaVe Smakta telah lahir!
ini merupakan ajang kreativitas siswa-siswi DeKaVe Smakta di Kabupaten Bondowoso.
Banyak hal yank akan diciptakan disini!!!
Yang pasti seru, unik, dan Spektakuler

Aku Baru Lahir di Muka Bumi ini
Aku Bahagia saat Mulai Mengenal Alam ini
Banyak Kehidupan yang Aku Rasakan
Terasa Begitu Indah

Aku Akan Hidup dengan Baik
Aku Akan Belajar Banyak Hal
Aku Akan Buktikan Kreatifitasku
Dan Menunjukkan pada Dunia

Aku Bisa!!!!