DeKaVe Smakta: April 2011

Selasa, 26 April 2011

Defining Love

Love is something that is abstract but heartfelt as an emotion. It is expressed according to how we view the idea of it. Regardless of whom we are and where we are in the universe it comes down to a deep feeling of affection that one person has for another. There are different types of expressing that affection. People express it by giving and receiving it in different ways. Love can be between friends, platonic, romantic, sexual, humanitarian, and religious to name a few types of this emotion as it is manifested.

One thing that is interesting is that love also can create attachments between people. Just like there are different types, there can be different types of attachments. You can have a mother and child attachment or a romantic attachment for starters. We can also love things. For instance a person can love eating chocolate. However one's love for a thing and attachment to it is different than the love one feels for a human being or even a pet.

Interpersonal love is the type that occurs between human beings. It is a more intense feeling than just two people "liking" each other. It implies a relationship between two people as well. Most of the time when we speak of it it's usually on a romantic level between a man and a woman it means different things to different people.

When you have love for someone you want the best for them. Two people who have it for one another want to naturally be there for each other. They help each other unconditionally when there is a problem.

Jumat, 22 April 2011

Friendship is About Bonding

Friendship is about bonding. It is about reciprocating the care you receive from a person and at the same time respecting the other person's view. A friend does not judge you by wealth or position, he or she is there with you during your bad times. He is like the pillar of strength you can rely on and also share your apprehensions about the various aspects in life. Friendship blossoms each day and one must make time to strengthen the bond.

Days and events are important during friendship. It is vital for us to remember the important days in our friend's life. Friendship is also about trust. One is able to open up freely to the person who is your friend because you know you will not be judged. It is fine to express your inhibitions and also seek the advice of your friend but at the same time friendship is also respecting the other person's predicament.

Friendships tend to sometimes even be more deep than family. The saying we can choose our friends but we can't choose our family comes to mind quite often. When you make a connection with a person whom we enjoy talking to, confiding in and sharing our most inner thoughts we are deeply united in a way that we may never be with our family. To have a friend we must truly be a friend, what does this mean? Friendships that are selfish are not going to last, no selfish relationships do. In order to be a true friend you must be able to think about someone other than yourself.

Have Friends

We all have friends. A lot gets talked about friendships. Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true friend. After a romantic relationship, friendships are the most important relationships we can have. Though all of us have family and distant family, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration.

A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children.

It should be understood that not all friends are best friends. One might come across numerous number of friends in his life but there are very few who will be their during your ups and down. How one should recognize your best friend the one who will understand your strengths and shortcomings and would be with you in all your good and bad phases of life.

Rabu, 20 April 2011

Men Friendships

Friendship is a personal relationship shared between each friend for the welfare of other, in other words, it is the relationship of trust, faith and concern for each other feelings. It is a relationship of mutual caring and intimacy among one another. A friend is one who knows you as a person and regards you for what you are and not what he or she is looking in a good friend. Best friend is one who accepts the good as well bad qualities of his friend and also takes an initiative in correcting and mending them. Friendship is a distinctive kind of concern for your friend, it is a relationship of immense faith and love for each other.

Friendship is all about how much you care and understand each other. It is a pure relationship, which would make your friend smile, feel good as to how much you love him and care for him. It is all about talking, listening and building up a strong relationship loyalty among each other. It is string of love which develops gradually with each others involvement. In certain cases friendship may not last for a longer period and might end up or lose its prime importance of love and regard for each other. There are some friendships which might end with unresolved conflicts and tiffs which means that these type of relationship were not so strong that could hold on their own in adversity and bad times.

The very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think.

Silent Friendship

A pedestrian bridge roofless, challenged the fierce sun in the sky Jakarta-covered carbon dioxide. The people crossed the ocean covered with sweat drenched tracks air laden exhaust fumes. Middle-aged man was still sat there, rests pipes iron fence, right in the middle of the bridge. Bow his head wrapped in pandanus hats and body clad in ragged clothes all dirty, throat on the sheet of cardboard used bottled water.

In front of a dented cans, nearly empty from the smallest pieces of metal coins which are still valid. And, under the bridge, with the swift flow of motor vehicles if the intersection not far from the bridge was lighted green. In contrast, traffic flow was abruptly torn crammed like a bunch of sheep who were surprised by the roar of a tiger, when the lights suddenly red

Men's half the age it appears healthy enough to be "closed practice" when the sun began to slip into the West. Would step down by the river to the black notch on the side of the road, get a steel-wheeled carts small size of an ashtray. From the wagon loaded with bundles and bags with a dirty body-colored uniforms, they look for a plastic bottle filled with water either taken from, and then drink it (CONTINUE).